Des Personal Blog

This page is so NOT work safe.

Nor should you be here if you are UNDER 18.

This is more of my personal blog.

I, and my husband are in a open poly marriage. We make home made porn which you can purchase or view on Destynnee-Realta.tumblr.com

I am apart of the Poly/Swinger/Open Relationship Community, as well as the Fetish/BDSM and Body Modification Communities in the Portland area of Oregon.

I can be found all over the net, usually using the name DesTynNee, DesTynNee Realta, or OhDani.

I love Horror movies, Zombies, B Flicks, Sex, Sexual Education, Body Modifications, Yoga, Meditation, Mental Health Education, Video Games and Ghosts.

Born and raised near the Gulf of Mexico in Texas since 1982. I moved to Oregon in 2003. I was married in 2007 to my best friend and soul mate, and I have been in a open/poly relationship 90% of my life.

Recent Tweets @Destynnee

littlezombiekid:

the-uncensored-she:

Women should NOT be forced to feed their babies in a bathroom, all because we live in a misogynistic, porn-warped society that’s been brainwashed to believe that female breasts used for anything other than male pleasure is “indecent”. Support public breast feeding and end the porn culture.

Forever reblog

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So my phone turned it self off, out of no where…

We did a soft reboot, it turned on, but I can not get it to connect to my cell service.

If I try to go in and choose my cell service it crashes.

I have over 3 gig free on my phone.

And of course cust service is closed until 6am est tomorrow.

So, I have no phone and no computer.

I have no idea how I am going to handle this..

AND before anyone starts in about how all kinds of ppl go without phones and computers, that’s GREAT for them.

My computer and my phone are my crutch. It’s how I have been able to get out of the house some and make a little bit of money. With them both being dead at this time, I am in utter panic mode.

Fml
Fml
Fml

daddy-deadlys-babygirl:

destynnee:

daddy-deadlys-babygirl:

nyccreativedesigns:

simply-divine-creation:

Coconut Almond Rice Krispie Treat » I am a food blog

These look so good!! :)

Gimme?!

daddy-deadlys-babygirl this looks like something yummy you would make :)

I totes wanna try em! But I ish his wait till payday :-(

I totally get that!

Payday a suck, they should be everyday!

destynnee:

kittymcsquirts:

destynnee:

So, as some might or might not know.. My hubby has a gf.
(We have a open/poly marriage.)
I often will record movies/shows I think they will like.
I’m such a goober.
Pft

That’s pretty awesome of you.

I try to be.

I’ve had my issues with…

Yes!
That was the wording I was looking for!

We have swung, but I often find it hard to do that do to my boundaries. I like to know the people I play with.

I have some amazing partners that I play solo with, but no gf/bf at this time.

kittymcsquirts:

destynnee:

So, as some might or might not know.. My hubby has a gf.
(We have a open/poly marriage.)
I often will record movies/shows I think they will like.
I’m such a goober.
Pft

That’s pretty awesome of you.

I try to be.

I’ve had my issues with the poly/open lifestyle. Mostly from my own deep seeded mental health issues. A few from people who didn’t understand the lifestyle. A few from those who lie and cheat.

Yes, you can still lie AND cheat in poly/open relationships.

There are some amazing books out there about this lifestyle. For me it’s always been a part of my life. I tried monogamy, wasn’t my thing. Not because I was cheating, but because I need more than what one person can give me. I found that in this lifestyle.

In a lifestyle, that I once saw on tv when I was little. I asked my parents if I could have more than one husband or wife like I had seen on pbs, they were doing a show on tribes of the world who had one than one partner, I feel in love with the idea.

You know, it takes a village, idea.

lol

It takes a lot of work.
You can have all kinds of relationship mixtures in this lifestyle.

Open/swinger

Swinger/mono

Triad/poly

Poly group/open

The lists go on and on.
There is no wrong way to do this, other than breaking the rules/boundaries that you and your partners set.
Best rule of thumb, go with the boundaries/rules/limits of the who… Hmm how do I say this.. Is sheepish? Plays it more safe? Has more rules?

Eck, all sound horrible, but I think y’all get what I am trying to say.

If one group in your poly family doesn’t like condoms, but someone in the triad does, you go with the one who likes them.

If that makes any sense.

Hopefully it does.

So, as some might or might not know.. My hubby has a gf.
(We have a open/poly marriage.)
I often will record movies/shows I think they will like.
I’m such a goober.
Pft

daddy-deadlys-babygirl:

nyccreativedesigns:

simply-divine-creation:

Coconut Almond Rice Krispie Treat » I am a food blog

These look so good!! :)

Gimme?!

daddy-deadlys-babygirl this looks like something yummy you would make :)

idanceitarotiart:

tastefullyoffensive:

Food Geometry [mrlovenstein]

There is penultimate truth in this imagery.

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potpornnpizza:

Wooooo! toastee227 ‘s birthday party tonight! :D - Delia

potpornnpizza:

Wooooo! toastee227 ‘s birthday party tonight! :D - Delia

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