Des Personal Blog

This page is so NOT work safe.

Nor should you be here if you are UNDER 18.

This is more of my personal blog.

I, and my husband are in a open poly marriage. We make home made porn which you can purchase or view on

I am apart of the Poly/Swinger/Open Relationship Community, as well as the Fetish/BDSM and Body Modification Communities in the Portland area of Oregon.

I can be found all over the net, usually using the name DesTynNee, DesTynNee Realta, or OhDani.

I love Horror movies, Zombies, B Flicks, Sex, Sexual Education, Body Modifications, Yoga, Meditation, Mental Health Education, Video Games and Ghosts.

Born and raised near the Gulf of Mexico in Texas since 1982. I moved to Oregon in 2003. I was married in 2007 to my best friend and soul mate, and I have been in a open/poly relationship 90% of my life.

Recent Tweets @Destynnee
Posts tagged "portland"


More grave shift doodles.

The Gentleman Illustrator


Night job doodles

The Gentleman Illustrator

Flight home from Texas.

Flight home from Texas.


#pdx #portland #oregon #princessFluffyButt - I MISS YOU

@kennethbotsfordjr - #love #lover #poly #openmarriage #openrelationship #openmarriage #pdx #portland #oregon - I MISS YOU 😻

I love my princess fluffy butt.
She is my therapy / service animal.
She means the world to me.

The hubby and I will be going down to the Pride festival tomorrow(Sunday). We would of went today(Saturday) as well, but we had a graduation to go to for a family member.

This will be like my 2-3 time going to Pride. It’s hard for me most of the time being in crowds. My anxiety perks and I get upset. I also at times get angry and lash out about things because of it. Like, not knowing where we are going, when we will be there, or when / how we will be getting home. Why do I do this? It’s my safety net. Knowing those things, I feel, keeps me safe.

It sucks that my health issues have such a control over my life, but I have to come to terms with it and learn to work with it.

Anywho, hopefully we will have a good time. I am thinking of dressing up some. We shall see. :)